Do I see a fellow Ironman player? If you are, you better not select the mode because the game is still unstable and I never reload unless the game crashed (You know, the intended way to play the game) so I'm basically playing Iron mode
Here are some tips on surviving the early game:
1) Wolf class frigates are the way to go, they are the best escapers in a retreat scenario. Make sure they have long-range weapons and they will almost live forever until being completely outgunned.
2) Save every time you dock on a port, it should be enough saves to keep progress.
3) Gain the favor of someone and start massing your fleet in the storage, only use it when the fleet is self-sufficient or just enough to kill any random large pirate armadas (This would be ~2 carriers, a battleship, and ~4 Frigate or corvettes depending on your setup (this is the safe estimate))
4) When in hyperspace, always turn off your transponder (0.9a gives you the choice to open it when entering an occupied jump gate), it basically doesn't make you into a glowing steal from me beckon
5) Get all your noncombat ships to equip the unstable engine mod, it will help a lot when escaping
6) Be ready to use emergency burns whenever something gets too close for comfort
7) Get cash through easy bounty hunting or just scavenge/scan missions, they are the safe route to riches.
Find and get an Apogee for me, and help yourself by getting one, no really I NEED one.
Remember not to get a colony until you can beat the smallest pirate station (Which is really hard early on) because they will haunt your first colony.
This should be enough to get you on track (The Ironman way of doing things at least)